Σε αρχείο excel (!) ένας άνδρας κατέγραψε όλες τις δικαιολογίες από την
γυναίκα του, κάθε φορά που της ζητούσε να κάνουν σεξ και αυτή δεν ήθελε.
Σύμφωνα με την καταγραφή, μέσα σε διάστημα 1,5 μήνα της ζήτησε να
κάνουν έρωτα 26 φορές και σε αυτό το διάστημα έκαναν έρωτα τρεις φορές
-προφανώς αγνοούμε τον τρόπο που το ζητούσε και παίζει μεγάλο ρόλο.
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Όλες οι άλλες φορές είναι γεμάτες –συνηθισμένες- δικαιολογίες/
αρνήσεις, όπως «είμαι κουρασμένη», «γύρισα από το γυμναστήριο, είμαι
“ψόψια” και θέλω να κάνω μπάνιο» (και σημειώνει ότι τελικά δεν κάνει
μπάνιο), «δεν θέλω να χάσω αυτή την εκπομπή», «δεν νιώθω καλά», «είσαι
πολύ μεθυσμένος», «παράφαγα και ήπια πολύ», μια φορά του είπε ξεκάθαρα
«όχι» και κάποιες φορές η άρνηση ήταν σιωπηλή.
Το έγγραφο excel το
έστειλε με ηλεκτρονικό μήνυμα στη σύζυγό του και αυτή το ανέβασε στην
πλατφόρμα δικτύωσης reddit και εύλογα προκάλεσε πλήθος σχολίων.
Δείτε την συζυγική καταγραφή:
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#Πηγή:
Άνδρας κατέγραψε όλες τις δικαιολογίες της συζύγου του | The Huffington Post
http://www.athensvoice.gr/article/%CE%B5%CE%B9%CE%B4%CE%AE%CF%83%CE%B5%CE%B9%CF%82/%CE%B4%CE%B9%CE%BA%CE%B1%CE%B9%CE%BF%CE%BB%CE%BF%CE%B3%CE%AF%CE%B5%CF%82-%CE%BC%CE%B9%CE%B1%CF%82-%CE%B3%CF%85%CE%BD%CE%B1%CE%AF%CE%BA%CE%B1%CF%82-%CF%80%CE%BF%CF%85-%CE%B4%CE%B5%CE%BD-%CE%B8%CE%AD%CE%BB%CE%B5%CE%B9-%CE%BD%CE%B1-%CE%BA%CE%AC%CE%BD%CE%B5%CE%B9-%CE%AD%CF%81%CF%89%CF%84%CE%B1
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Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet Of All Her Excuses Not To Have Sex
The Huffington Post
| By
Cavan Sieczkowski
Posted:
The key to improving intimacy is creating a spreadsheet to document
all the times you felt rejected and then emailing said spreadsheet to
your partner, right? Wrong.
For some reason, though, one unnamed
man presumably thought it would be a good idea to do just that. So, he
set up a three-columned spreadsheet of all the times he initiated sex
with his wife over the course of six weeks. In column A he recorded the
date (June 3 to July 16); in column B he included the response (yes or
no) and in column C he wrote down the excuse his wife used against
having sex on a particular night.
Someone claiming to be the wife took the spreadsheet to Reddit
and, under the username throwwwwaway29, shared it with the
/r/relationships community, writing: "My husband [M26] sent me [F26] an
immature, inflammatory email as I was driving to the airport for a
10-day work trip. Now he has cut contact."
Deadspin's The Concourse blog published the woman's full description,
which has since been converted to a locked post on Reddit, of what
occurred:
Yesterday morning, while in a taxi on the way to the airport, Husband
sends a message to my work email which is connected to my phone. He's
never done this, we always communicate in person or by text. I open it
up, and it's a sarcastic diatribe basically saying he won't miss me for
the 10 days I'm gone. Attached is a SPREADSHEET of all the times he has tried to initiate sex
since June 1st, with a column for my 'excuses,' using verbatim quotes
of why I didn't feel like having sex at that very moment. According to
his 'document', we've only had sex 3 times in the last 7 weeks, out of
27 'attempts' on his part.
Responses to the woman's post were mixed. Some sided with her.
"If
someone had constructed a spreadsheet of reasons why I wouldn't have
sex with them, it would make me instantly want to pounce on their c--k
and worship them like the god of sex they clearly are," one user wrote
sarcastically. "No wait -- it would make me feel nauseous and like I
didn't want them anywhere near me. That's beyond pathetic."
"[I]f
someone refused to have sex with me over & over & over again
despite my repeated attempts, culminating in them only agreeing to it 3
times in 7 weeks, and they used the same excuses each time, excuses
which could be easily remedied, it would make me feel like they didn't
want me anywhere near them," another user wrote.
Others just noted the obvious communication issues within the relationship.
Regardless of who is right and who is wrong, the sexual entitlement here is pretty undeniable. So is the immaturity.
"I'm not a marriage counselor," writes Bob Powers of Someecards,
"but I'm pretty sure that if you and the spouse aren't sleeping
together as much as you'd like, the way to turn her on is not with
passive-aggressive use of Microsoft Office."
We couldn't have said it better ourselves
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