Is it even possible to have regrets in your 20s? After all, every failure is just another lesson to be learned, right?
Turns out there are quite a few regrets you can have as a 20-something (although the list is much shorter than in your 30s).
Redditors recently voiced things that they regret not doing in their 20s. Read their answers to make sure you won't have any regrets in some of the best years of your life.
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Your 20s should be filled with fun.
Don't waste your time on things, or relationships, you'll regret
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1. Not getting fit
Your 20-something metabolism can make you complacent with your
health, but start working on being fit and healthy earlier, and you
definitely won't regret it. After all, exercising and a healthy diet can
increase your happiness and make all your experiences better.
For example, if you're fit, you'll be able to take on bucket list trips that require a lot of endurance and a certain fitness level, like climbing Machu Picchu.
2. Not taking risks
So you're heading down the traditional path to play it safe. Think of
your 20s as a time for new experiences and don't let your fears hold
you back. You're only young once!
3. Rushing to be a grown-up
You're eager to get started on life, but take the time to really
enjoy the experience of being in your 20s. You have the rest of your
life to act like a grown-up. Don't feel obligated to follow a certain
timeline.
"You don't have to rush out and get a full-time career job at 21. You
don't have to shack up and marry the first person you meet at 24. You
don't have to buy a house or car and have babies by 27," says Reddit
user shewhogoesthere. "A lot of people I know who were in a hurry all
through their 20s are now ending their 20s and feeling a bit depressed
because they quickly extinguished their youth and hit all the goal posts
and now they're like, 'What now?' You can't go back, you can't be young
again; why throw it away so quickly?"
4. Not starting a retirement fund
Every personal finance expert recommends to start putting money
toward your retirement fund as early as possible. This is because the
earlier you make your contributions, the greater the rewards with the
magic of compounding. This means the more money you put in earlier, the
faster it grows.
5. Wasting time on people who don't deserve your time
Yup, the old toxic friend syndrome. It seems as if we have this
regret in every decade of our life. But in your 20s, friends seem to
take up more time and effort than other decades just because many of us
are still looking for our significant others and haven't had kids yet.
Make sure that the time you spend on your friends is well spent and that
you're cultivating friendships that will last a lifetime.
6. Not studying or moving abroad
You usually have less obligations in your 20s, so it's a good time to
pack up and actually live overseas for a while. It's a completely
different experience from traveling, and it's worth doing if you can
make it work. You'll be out of your comfort zone culturally and in every
other way possible, which is a tremendous learning experience that will
open up your perspectives and world view.
7. Staying in bad relationships
This goes hand in hand with friends you shouldn't waste time on. Your
20s will pass by in a flash, so make sure you're spending it with the
right people! Bad relationships — be they romantic or platonic — can
really do a number on your self esteem, so don't let them drag you down.
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7 Things You Will Regret Not Doing In Your 20s
http://www.businessinsider.com/things-you-will-regret-in-your-20s-2014-8
Aug. 17, 2014, 11:45 AM
Aug. 17, 2014, 11:45 AM
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